20 Thanksgiving games for family and friends
The classic Thanksgiving games are turkey bingo, Thanksgiving trivia, charades, a drawing game and a gratitude jar. Pick one quick game for before dinner and one seated game for the table. Below are rules for all 20, a table to choose by time and group, and a printable pack with bingo cards and trivia.

Digital illustration. Keep a host sheet separate, give each player a card, and let the timer yield to dinner.
- Before dinner
- Play one round of turkey bingo or a five-minute word chain at the table.
- At the table
- Run Thanksgiving trivia in teams while the turkey rests; score only the questions you finish.
- After dinner
- Play charades or sketch-and-guess, then read the gratitude jar with dessert.
- Start with the classics: turkey bingo, Thanksgiving trivia, charades, a drawing game and a gratitude jar.
- Pick games by the time you have before dinner, and give each one a clear finish so the meal comes first.
- The free printable host pack holds eight turkey bingo cards, a caller list, a trivia sheet with a separate answer key and prompt cards.
In this guide
- How do you fit a game around Thanksgiving dinner?
- Which Thanksgiving game fits your group?
- Which classic Thanksgiving games should you play first?
- Which quiet games work at the dinner table?
- Which games include every age?
- Which active games suit kids and teams?
- What is in the printable host pack?
- Common questions about Thanksgiving games
- How does scoring work when dinner interrupts?
- What should a Thanksgiving invitation say about games?
- Useful links
- Sources
In this guide
- How do you fit a game around Thanksgiving dinner?
- Which Thanksgiving game fits your group?
- Which classic Thanksgiving games should you play first?
- Which quiet games work at the dinner table?
- Which games include every age?
- Which active games suit kids and teams?
- What is in the printable host pack?
- Common questions about Thanksgiving games
- How does scoring work when dinner interrupts?
- What should a Thanksgiving invitation say about games?
- Useful links
- Sources
How do you fit a game around Thanksgiving dinner?
Match the game to the time you have, and say how it ends before you start. Ask the cook how long the kitchen needs, then pick from this plan.
| When | Ready plan | When to stop |
|---|---|---|
| Before dinner, 10 minutes | One round of turkey bingo, or the seasonal word chain at the table. | When the host calls dinner. Finish the current call only. |
| While the turkey rests, 20 minutes | Thanksgiving trivia in teams, history round only. | At the end of a question. Score only the questions you finished. |
| After dinner, 20 minutes | Charades or sketch-and-guess, then read the gratitude jar with dessert. | After the current turn. Skip rounds if conversation takes over. |
| Friendsgiving games, 30 minutes | Trivia with a round about the hosts, then sketch-and-guess. | Same rules. Mix friends who do not know each other on each team. |
| Kids' table, any time | Pass the pumpkin, the plate-on-head turkey and the paper-leaf target. | Keep each game under 10 minutes and let kids switch freely. |
Pair a young child or a nonreader with a willing reader, and let them choose drawing or guessing. Every game below can be played seated, and no game needs anyone to perform.
Which Thanksgiving game fits your group?
Use this table to shortlist two or three games, then read the full rules below. Player counts and times are rough guides; adjust them for your room.
| Game | Players and time | Best for | Supplies |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1. Turkey bingo | 4–30 · 15–20 min | Every age from about 5; before dinner | Bingo cards, caller list, paper markers |
| 2. Thanksgiving trivia | 4–30 in teams · 15–25 min | Teens and adults on mixed-age teams | Question sheet, answer key, pencils |
| 3. Gratitude jar | Any number · all day | Every age, including quiet guests | A jar, paper slips, pencils |
| 4. Thanksgiving charades | 4–16 in two teams · 10–15 min | After dinner; ages 6 and up | Prompt cards, a bowl, a timer |
| 5. Sketch-and-guess teams | 4–24 in teams · 10–12 min | Mixed ages, seated | A pad and pencil per team, a timer |
| 6. Seasonal word chain | 3–12 · 5 min | At the table, no setup | None |
| 7. Three-clue object | 3–16 · 5–8 min | Young kids and nonreaders | Prompt list |
| 8. Tabletop memory | 2–12 · 6–8 min | Small seated groups | 8 objects, a cloth, paper |
| 9. Quiet I-spy grid | 1–20 · 5–15 min | Guests who would rather not compete | Observation sheet, pencil |
| 10. Would-you-rather on paper | 3–20 · 5–7 min | An ice breaker for mixed ages | Scrap-paper A/B cards |
| 11. Build a shared scene | 3–12 · 6–10 min | Storytellers | None |
| 12. Category team list | 4–24 in teams · 8–10 min | Older kids and adults | Paper, pencils, a timer |
| 13. Draw it together | 4–16 in pairs · 8–10 min | Calm pairs, no winners | Paper, pencils, prompts |
| 14. Find a shared favorite | 4–20 in groups · 5–8 min | Guests who just met | None |
| 15. Thankful A to Z | 3–20 · 5–10 min | Gratitude at the table | None |
| 16. Pass the pumpkin | 5–20 · 5–10 min | Kids, with music | A small pumpkin, music |
| 17. Plate-on-head turkey drawing | 3–20 · 5–8 min | Kids and playful adults | Paper plates, markers |
| 18. Paper-leaf target | 2–12 · 5–8 min | Kids in a small space | Paper leaves, a target sheet |
| 19. Object sorting relay | 4–20 in teams · 6–10 min | Teams at separate tables | Card sets, a timer |
| 20. Freeze-frame scene | 4–16 in teams · 6–10 min | Groups who like acting | Prompt list |
Which classic Thanksgiving games should you play first?
Start with one of these five: most guests already know how they work. Each one needs a minute of rules and supplies you have at home or in the printable pack.
- Give each player one of the eight bingo cards from the pack. With more than eight players, have the rest draw a 5×5 grid and fill it with any 24 words from the word bank below, with a star in the center square that counts as covered.
- The caller cuts the caller list into slips, draws one word at a time and reads it twice. Players cover or cross out the word if it is on their card.
- A player with five in a row, across, down or diagonally, calls "Gobble!" and reads the line back so the caller can check it.
Scoring and finish: The first correct line wins the round, and two lines on the same call share the win. Play on for four corners or a full card if dinner allows.

Digital illustration. In turkey bingo, the caller draws a word slip and players cover the matching square with a paper marker.
- How a call works
- The caller draws one word from the bowl and reads it twice; anyone with that word covers it.
- How to win
- The first player with five covered squares in a row, across, down or diagonally, calls out and wins the round.
| Food | Desserts and the table | Autumn and traditions |
|---|---|---|
| Turkey | Pumpkin pie | Pumpkin |
| Stuffing | Apple pie | Acorn |
| Gravy | Pecan pie | Autumn leaves |
| Cranberry sauce | Whipped cream | Scarf |
| Mashed potatoes | Apple cider | Harvest |
| Sweet potatoes | Wishbone | Cornucopia |
| Green beans | Napkin | Parade |
| Corn | Candle | Football |
| Dinner rolls | Nap | Gratitude |
| Leftovers | Family | Friends |
- Split into teams that mix ages. Read each question twice, and give teams 30 seconds to write one answer.
- Play the 12 history questions below, then a family round of five questions you write yourself, such as "Who carved the turkey last year?"
- Swap sheets to mark, and read the answers from the key.
Scoring and finish: One point per correct answer, and the family round counts double. Accept close answers the same way for every team, and share ties.
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| In what year was the Plymouth harvest feast now called the "First Thanksgiving"? | 1621 |
| According to Edward Winslow, how many days did the Wampanoag guests stay? | Three |
| About how many Wampanoag men came with Massasoit? | About 90 |
| What did the Wampanoag hunters bring to the feast as gifts? | Five deer |
| How many men did the governor send out to hunt birds before the feast? | Four |
| Which bird did William Bradford say the colonists took "many" of that fall? | Wild turkeys |
| In which 1622 book was Winslow's letter about the feast first printed? | Mourt's Relation |
| Which president proclaimed the first Thanksgiving under the U.S. Constitution, in 1789? | George Washington |
| Which president's 1863 proclamation set Thanksgiving on the last Thursday of November? | Abraham Lincoln |
| Which magazine editor wrote to Lincoln in 1863 asking for a national Thanksgiving? | Sarah Josepha Hale |
| Which president moved Thanksgiving one week earlier in 1939? | Franklin D. Roosevelt |
| Since the 1941 law, which Thursday of November is Thanksgiving Day? | The fourth Thursday |
- Put the jar, slips and pencils by the door. As guests arrive, each writes one thing they are thankful for, signs it or not, and folds it into the jar.
- With dessert, the host reads five to ten notes aloud. Guests can guess who wrote each one, and the writer may reveal themselves or stay quiet.
- Keep the notes, and read last year's jar first next Thanksgiving.
Scoring and finish: Unscored; for a light twist, give a point for each correct "who wrote it" guess. Nobody has to write, sign or share.

Digital illustration. Guests add a folded note to the gratitude jar when they arrive, and the host reads a few aloud with dessert.
- Before dinner
- Each guest writes one thing they are thankful for on a slip, signs it or not, and drops it in the jar.
- With dessert
- The host reads five to ten notes aloud; guests may guess who wrote each one.
- Mix the eight object cards with action prompts on slips: carving the turkey, raking leaves, baking a pie, passing the gravy, watching the parade, napping on the couch.
- Each team picks a willing performer, who acts out one prompt without words for up to 60 seconds while their team guesses.
- Alternate teams for four turns each.
Scoring and finish: One point per correct guess, and the team with more points after eight turns wins; share ties. Performers can act seated, give three spoken clues instead, or pass the turn to a teammate.
- This is the Pictionary-style team drawing game with Thanksgiving prompts. Each round, one artist from every team sees the same prompt privately and draws it for 45 seconds, with no letters or numbers.
- Teammates agree on one final written guess. Reveal the word, swap artists, and play three rounds.
Scoring and finish: One point per correct final guess, up to 3. A close synonym is accepted the same way for every team, ties are shared, and a host can draw for a team that prefers guessing.
Which quiet games work at the dinner table?
These five need no moving and almost no supplies, so they suit the minutes before or after the meal. Each one can stop the moment food arrives.
- Start with the word "leaf." Going around the table, each player says a word linked to the last one, such as tree, shade or picnic.
- Allow five seconds to think, and let anyone say "pass." Finish after two trips around the table or when the host calls dinner.
Scoring and finish: Unscored, and nobody is out; repeated words are fine. A guest can point to a picture card or let a partner speak for them.
- Privately choose an object from the prompt cards: pumpkin, leaf, scarf, mug, book, umbrella, sock or acorn.
- Give three clues without saying the word, such as "I have a handle; I hold a drink; I sit on a table" for mug. Guests make one guess each after the third clue, and you play four objects.
Scoring and finish: Optional: one point per correct guess, at most one per object per player, and ties share the win. Clues are spoken, so nobody needs to read.
- Show a tray of eight objects for 30 seconds: a mug, spoon, napkin, pencil, leaf, book, scarf and sock, or your own eight.
- Cover the tray. Give two minutes to write or say every object players remember, then lift the cloth and read the key.
Scoring and finish: One point per correct object, up to 8, and the host accepts clear synonyms for everyone. A partner can write for anyone who would rather say answers aloud.
- Hand out the 3×3 grid from the pack, also shown in the printable section below. Players mark a square when they notice that object or moment from their seat.
- Ask before drawing or describing another person. Stop at any three squares, or put the sheet away when dinner starts.
Scoring and finish: Unscored: every copy is the same, so there is no caller and no winner. It is the quiet cousin of turkey bingo for guests who would rather not compete.
- Read three pairs: pumpkin pie or apple pie; the parade or the football game; a leftover sandwich or leftover soup. Guests hold up A, B, both or neither.
- Invite one volunteer per round to explain their pick in a sentence. End after the third pair.
Scoring and finish: Unscored: there is no right answer and no majority winner. "Neither" and passing count as full answers.
Which games include every age?
Four of these are cooperative, so grandparents, teens and young kids play on the same side, and the category list is a gentle team game. Nobody is knocked out, and most need no supplies.
- Start with "On Thanksgiving morning, the oven door would not open." Each person adds one sentence to the made-up story.
- Keep real guests out of the story unless they agree. The host adds the last sentence after everyone has had one turn.
Scoring and finish: Unscored, with no judging. Players can pass, add a single word or let a partner add a sentence for them.
- Give every team the same three categories, such as side dishes, things that are orange, and words that start with T. Allow two minutes per category for up to five answers each.
- Read the answers together, and check each category before starting the next.
Scoring and finish: One point per fitting answer, up to 15, and repeats across teams still count. A disputed answer is removed for every team, and ties share the win.
- Each pair picks a prompt. One person draws for 30 seconds, then the partner adds detail for 30 seconds without starting over.
- Show the picture only if both agree, and let the other pairs name the object. Repeat once with roles swapped.
Scoring and finish: Cooperative and unscored: there is no art contest. One partner can describe while the other draws, or the pair can simply watch.
- Each group looks for one favorite that every member shares: a pie, a side dish, a kind of weather or an indoor game.
- Anyone can reject a category and offer another. After five minutes, a volunteer reports the shared pick, or the group says "still looking."
Scoring and finish: Unscored, and agreement is optional. Nobody has to explain a private preference.
- Going around the table, each player names something they are thankful for that starts with the next letter: apples, books, cousins, and on through the alphabet.
- Skip hard letters such as Q and X, or let the table help. Stop at Z or when dinner is served.
Scoring and finish: Unscored: the whole table wins by reaching Z. Small answers like "dessert" count as much as big ones, and anyone may pass.
Which active games suit kids and teams?
These five get people out of their chairs, so play them away from the kitchen and the hot dishes. Each one also has a seated way to join.
- Sit or stand in a circle. Play music while players pass the pumpkin hand to hand, and have the host stop the music with their back turned.
- Whoever holds the pumpkin answers a light question, such as "Pie or cake?" or "Which side dish could you eat every day?" Then start the music again.
- End after ten stops or when everyone has answered once.
Scoring and finish: Unscored in the family version, so nobody is out. For older kids, the holder can step out at each stop and the last player in wins; pass gently and never throw.
- Each player holds a paper plate flat on top of their head, drawing side up, and nobody looks until the end.
- The host calls six steps slowly: draw a round body; add a head; add five tail feathers; add two legs; add an eye and a beak; draw a pumpkin beside the turkey.
- Everyone lowers their plate and shows the drawing.
Scoring and finish: One point for each part that sits roughly where it belongs, up to 6, or skip points and vote for the funniest turkey. Players can also draw with the plate on the table and their eyes closed.
- Lay a paper target on a table and mark one throwing line for everyone. Each player gently tosses three paper leaves at the target.
- Clear the leaves after each turn. Finish when every willing player has had one turn.
Scoring and finish: One point per leaf touching the target, up to 3, and ties share the win. Players can toss from a chair or use a closer line agreed before play.
- Lay out each team's eight cards. Teams sort them by a rule they choose, such as indoor and outdoor or soft and firm, and say the rule aloud.
- Each person moves one card at a time. Stop after three minutes, and each team shows how all eight fit.
Scoring and finish: Unscored: more than one sort can work, and there is no fastest team. Cards can be passed around a seated table instead.
- Give each team a scene to hold as a still picture: a family photo where someone blinks, waiting for the oven timer, or two people reaching for the last slice of pie. Teams get one minute to plan a pose.
- Each team holds its scene for five seconds, seated or standing, while the others make one guess each. Reveal the answer and move on.
Scoring and finish: Unscored, with no ranking. Teams can pose seated, describe the scene aloud, or watch.
What is in the printable host pack?
The free printable pack has eight pages you print from your browser, with no signup. Print at 100% on US Letter or A4, portrait, and keep the host pages away from players.
| Page | What it holds | Who gets it |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Host guide, pause rule and the memory key | Host only |
| 2 | Reusable player sheet for memory and drawing answers | One per player or team |
| 3 | Eight word-and-picture prompt cards | Host; cut for charades and clues |
| 4 | Quiet I-spy grid and a gratitude card | One per player |
| 5 | Turkey bingo caller list and the trivia answer key | Host only |
| 6 | Turkey bingo cards 1–4 | Players |
| 7 | Turkey bingo cards 5–8 | Players |
| 8 | Trivia question sheet with answer lines | One per team |
| Word | Picture cue / three clues |
|---|---|
| Pumpkin | Round outline with a stem. Round; grows on a plant; often orange. |
| Leaf | Oval with a center vein. Grows on a plant; has a vein; may fall from a tree. |
| Scarf | Long strip with fringed ends. Long; soft; can wrap around a neck. |
| Mug | Cup with a handle. Holds a drink; has a handle; sits on a table. |
| Book | Two pages joined at a spine. Has pages; opens; may tell a story. |
| Umbrella | Dome and curved handle. Opens; has a handle; used in rain. |
| Sock | An L-shaped fabric outline. Soft; worn on a foot; often comes in a pair. |
| Acorn | Oval with a little cap. Small; has a cap; comes from an oak tree. |
| Column 1 | Column 2 | Column 3 |
|---|---|---|
| A folded napkin | Something round | A pencil |
| A leaf-shaped decoration | A book or magazine | Something with a handle |
| A shared laugh you hear | A pattern you can describe | A color you enjoy |
The eight bingo cards each use 24 of the 30 words in a different order, so two cards never match. The trivia sheet repeats the 12 questions with answer lines and space for your family round; the answers stay on the host page.
Common questions about Thanksgiving games
These are the questions people ask most about Thanksgiving games, answered in a line or three.
What games did they play at the first Thanksgiving?
No games were written down. Edward Winslow's 1621 letter says only that "amongst other Recreations, we exercised our Armes," which Pilgrim Hall Museum explains meant firing muskets and showing military skills. The Wampanoag guests, about 90 men with Massasoit, stayed three days and brought five deer.
What are some fun gratitude games to play on Thanksgiving?
The gratitude jar, Thankful A to Z and the gratitude cards in the pack all work at the table. For a twist, read jar notes aloud and let guests guess who wrote each one. Keep every gratitude game optional to share.
What are some fun activities to do with family on Thanksgiving?
Pair one game with one tradition: turkey bingo while the parade is on, a walk or backyard football before the meal, and the gratitude jar with dessert. Trivia with a family round puts grandparents and kids on the same team. Save a jigsaw puzzle or board game for the slow hour after dinner.
What Thanksgiving games can you play at work?
Turkey bingo, Thanksgiving trivia, the category team list and sketch-and-guess all work for coworkers, in person or on a video call. Skip the family trivia round and anything that asks for personal stories. Keep it to 15 minutes over lunch, with a small prize such as first pick of the leftovers.
What games work for a Thanksgiving Minute to Win It party?
Turn three games above into one-minute challenges: land as many paper leaves on the target as you can, finish a plate-on-head turkey, or write ten side dishes for the category list. Time each player with a phone and record the best score. Set up a separate station for each challenge so the next player can start right away.
How does scoring work when dinner interrupts?
Score only what finished, apply one rule to every team, and share ties. This practice round shows the rules at work before guests arrive.
A practice round with invented answers
Fictional example. Adapt the details for your event.
Turkey bingo: two players call out on the same word, and the caller finds both lines correct, so they share the win.
Thanksgiving trivia: the host accepts both "Lincoln" and "Abe Lincoln" for every team. Team A scores 9 history points and 3 family answers at double points (15); Team B scores 7 and 4 family answers (15), so they share the win.
Sketch-and-guess: each team has 1 point after two rounds when dinner interrupts round three, so that round is dropped and the teams share the win.
Read one question and one prompt aloud before the party to check that everyone can hear or see it.
Keep walkways clear, and move active games away from the oven and the serving table.
What should a Thanksgiving invitation say about games?
Say games are optional, and keep the meal time and the reply date in one place. Use this checklist before you send.
If you send the invitation with InviteBird, the Quiz can hold your family trivia round. Guests answer as they reply and you reveal the scores at dinner, or you play it live on a big screen with a countdown and a leaderboard. Trivia is included on every plan: design free, pay when you send — from $9.99.
If guests are bringing dishes, the potluck sign-up sheet guide linked below has a printable sheet for who brings what.
Put the plan into practice
- Browse holiday and seasonal invitations
Designs for Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving and other fall gatherings, with online replies built in.
- Open the Thanksgiving host pack
Free printable, ungated HTML: eight turkey bingo cards and a caller list, a trivia sheet with a separate answer key, prompt cards and player sheets.
- Play Thanksgiving trivia on guests' phones
Write the questions once: guests answer as they reply, or race a countdown live on a big screen.
- Set up trivia in the RSVP
Add questions guests answer as they reply, then choose when to reveal the scores.
- Plan the meal with a potluck sign-up sheet
A printable sheet with categories, quantities and a host checklist for who brings each dish.
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Sources and further reading
- Pilgrim Hall Museum: The First Thanksgiving
Pilgrim Hall Museum, Plymouth. Quotes Edward Winslow's letter of December 11, 1621, printed in Mourt's Relation (1622): four men sent fowling, some ninety men with Massasoit, three days, five deer, 'we exercised our Armes'; and William Bradford's 'great store of wild Turkies, of which they tooke many'. No page date; opened October 15, 2026.
- National Archives: Congress Establishes Thanksgiving
National Archives, last reviewed December 27, 2023: Washington's 1789 proclamation (the first under the Constitution), Lincoln's 1863 last-Thursday date, Roosevelt's 1939 move to the second-to-last Thursday and the 1941 law fixing the fourth Thursday. Opened October 15, 2026.
- Abraham Lincoln Online: Thanksgiving Proclamation of 1863
Full text of the October 3, 1863 proclamation (the last Thursday of November) and the note on the September 28, 1863 letter from Sarah Josepha Hale, editor of Godey's Lady's Book. Opened October 15, 2026.
- Pilgrim Hall Museum: National Day of Mourning
Pilgrim Hall Museum. Explains the National Day of Mourning, which began in Plymouth in 1970; Native Americans and others have gathered there each Thanksgiving since. No page date; opened October 15, 2026.
- American Academy of Pediatrics: Choking Prevention for Babies and Children
HealthyChildren.org, last updated February 27, 2026. Lists hard candy, coins, marbles and toys with small parts as choking hazards, and advises keeping high-risk foods from children until age 4. Opened October 15, 2026.
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